Meaningful Dialogue With the Public
by Elaine Cogan
By engaging in a true dialogue with the public, you may learn some useful information and actually enjoy the give-and-take.
From PCJ #73, Winter 2009
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Encourage people not to repeat what someone else has said, but be patient with repeaters. They may have been concentrating so much on their presentation that they have not listened to those before them. It may help to move matters along by keeping brief notes of the salient points each person presents. At an opportune time, sum up what you have heard and request those following to confine their remarks to something new.
If you are asked a question that is somewhat long or ambiguous, paraphrase it. "As I understand it, Ms. Carlson, you want to know ..." If Ms. Carlson nods, you can proceed. If she shakes her head, invite her to rephrase her question.
Some people just have a statement to make. Hear them out in the allotted time and move on. Do not invite their further participation by asking if they have a question.
Answer questions succinctly and to the point. Do not digress into irrelevancies that do not advance the discussion. Avoid plannerese and jargon, always keeping in mind you are talking with laypeople.
Show by your body language that you are listening. Lean forward, with hands discretely on the table or in your lap. Never roll your eyes, shake your head, or tap a pencil or pen -- all sure signals you are impatient or distracted.
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